"The President is an apostate...an imposter...he is ruining the country....he is aiding our enemies....the President is a traitor" So said the newspapers of our first President George Washington.1
During the Civil War the media said of President Abraham Lincoln, he was "an ape....a baboon...a buffoon...a clown....a usurper....a traitor....a tyrant....a monster....a charlatan...a bully. His home town newspaper the Illinois State Register wrote, "How the greatest butchers of antiquity sink into insignificance when their crimes are contrasted with those of Abraham Lincoln."2
In recent weeks there has been a lot of concern about how we talk about and to each other in this country. And there should be. There has been much soul searching about our choice of words and the demeanor of our conversation about those with whom we disagree.
It’s easy and convenient to bash the media's passion for sensational conflict. The print, television, radio and internet outlets are full of opportunities for pundits and prognosticators to yell at each other, not just disagreeing but questioning the opposition's worth as human beings. Considering what our heroes Washington and Lincoln faced from the media of their day should we take comfort knowing that such language is nothing new in America?
Or….as my father would constantly remind me as I railed against the programing on the radio and television stations he would manage over a very successful 50 year career in broadcasting, "Mark you need to look in the mirror. You the viewer determine what we put on the air. You the viewer have all the power and it is there at the end of your fingertips. If you don't like what you're hearing or seeing, turn it off or change the channel. If people don't want to see or hear what we are programming we will know right away and change for we make it our business to broadcast what people want."
If that is the case what does the popularity of media conflict programming say about us and our desire to listen to and watch people yell at each other and put each other down as human beings?
More than a political or civic issue, the Christian tradition would suggest that how we talk to and about each other is a spiritual matter; "...let everyone be quick to listen and slow to speak, slow to anger; for your anger does not produce God's righteousness…” (James 1:22-23) The old Arabic saying echoes this theme; "We were born with two ears and one tongue. We should listen twice as much as we speak!"
Jesus insisted that how we treat each other is how we treat God; that's true in our families, that is true in our communities, that is true in the church. How we speak to and about each other has everything to do with our spirituality; about the kids at school that don’t have friends and are unpopular; about the rumors and gossip we pass between ourselves at work, at school, at church or at home; about other members of our family.
Such an ethic might never make in in the media climate today but imagine what it would do for our families....our church...for our country.
1 George Washington's Legacy of Leadership, A Ward Burian, Morgan James, 2007, p. 252
George Washington, William Roscoe Thayer, Nabu Press, 2010, p. 219
George Washington and the Origin of the American Presidency, Rozell, Pederson & Williams, Praeger,
2000, pp. 189-190
2 Presidential Anecdotes, Paul F. Boller, ed., Penguin, 1981, pp. 122-146