Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Why I Don’t Give Money to Beggars

I don’t give money to beggars holding cardboard signs on the medians of our roadways.  I don’t drop coins into the paper cups of disabled veterans outside of the ballpark.  I don’t give out cash to transients looking for a tank of gas coming to my office at church.

It is difficult to say this out loud.  I can’t escape Jesus’ words; “Give to everyone who begs from you ….”(Matthew 5:42, Luke 6:30).  His call to compassion for the beggar is unequivocal.  And my response is full of qualifications.  I want to follow his teachings.  I want to follow his example.  But as with his insistence that “…if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off….” (Matthew 5:30, 18:8) I don’t take his begging admonition literally. 

I was introduced to institutional begging during my college sophomore year in India.  It has framed my response ever since.  Entire families make their living begging on the streets and in the market places of that wonderful country.   Both Hinduism and Islam require alms-giving as a practice of their daily faith.  Beggars hang outside of Temples and Mosques taking advantage of this practice which has all the best intentions of compassion for the poor.  Professional adult beggars will mutilate their children to increase their earning potential for the family unit.  During our orientation classes in Bangalore we learned from social workers that giving money to beggars only perpetuates a system of class oppression.  Education, investment in self-development businesses and a commitment to build relationships with those who beg were the solution to this dehumanizing practice.

Such a context may seem alien to our North American experience but only at first glance.   Handing a few dollars to the one holding the cardboard sign by the side of the road, dropping a few coins in a cup is designed to make us the donor feel good…benevolent…superior. Those invested in begging count on that.   Such charity does little to move a suffering individual to wholeness.  At best it provides a temporary Band-Aid.

I’d be the first to say that if you’re bleeding, a Band-Aid is important.  I have friends who for each baseball game they attend bring a number of sack lunches with healthy food to distribute to the long line of beggars outside the gates.  Awesome!   

When a transient comes to church looking for money for food, I personally take them out to lunch or to the grocery store and pay their bill.  When they come looking for money for a tank of gas, I drive with them to the gas station and pay for a full tank.  I don’t lecture or proselytize in such an encounter.  I try to listen to their story and affirm their humanity.  If they are local I refer them to organizations that can assist them to work towards self-sufficiency, if that is their goal.  If they are just passing through I bless their journey.   
But dropping a dollar in a cup doesn’t involve a conversation or an encounter with a human being.  It’s designed to be convenient and detached for the donor.  Is that what Jesus had in mind?   He sets his admonition about begging in the verses about “turning the other cheek,” “going the second mile,” “lending to any in need of borrowing,” “praying for our enemies.” Vulnerability, openness and connection between human beings were his call.  Was it the pious convenience of quick and easy charity? 

My bias is to serve our local food bank/direct assistance non- profit agency; “the safety net” for our community’s poor and frail elderly.  Along with other members of our church I have been on the Board of Directors of the Community Service Agency of Mt. View, Los Altos and Los Altos Hills for years.  (I have worked with similar agencies throughout my 37 year ordained ministry.) Our Alpha Omega Homeless program assists the transition to decent housing and economic self-sufficiency for an average of 350 people each year.  When we distribute food and/or emergency PG&E or rent monies to those facing hunger and potential homelessness we do so with trained social workers developing a plan towards self-sufficiency for our clients.  We work with them in an on-going relationship.   Dignity in such a process is one of our highest priorities as an agency.

What dignity is there for the person begging on the side of the road when we drop in a few coins and just pass on by?

Years ago, Bonnie Bollwinkel worked as an outreach social worker finding veterans in “single occupancy housing” who had lost their connection to the government assistance they earned defending our country.  She knew them by name and they knew hers as they called out to her while she walked the streets of that city’s “skid row.” The program in which she worked would assist scores of veterans to resource the next steps in their lives.   

Jesus didn’t intend for almsgiving to be an exercise in convenient piety for the donor but a spiritual practice in which we participate in God’s promise that someday all will have enough, all will be treated with dignity and all will have a safe place to call home (Luke 4:18-19).

I won’t give money to beggars.   I will contribute to the team/community effort it takes to restore a life.